1.17.2015

Change

As we sail through our lives, we make a series of choices, actions, words, etc. that slowly shapes us. We build up our personality every day, with small choices and large choices. Where you decide to go to college. How you decide to respond to a mean comment. We learn new things about ourselves every year. Every week. Every day, maybe.

At some point though, your choices might mismatch. The things you think true about the world and yourself, might suddenly vanish. Your choices, and other people's choices, might change your life. It doesn't have to be a big change. But there will be changes. One of your best friends might not be a really close friend anymore. The thing you were most passionate about might just be a loose hobby now. 

And this happens to most people. Our personalities, dreams, goals, etc. do change. We have to find ourselves, find what we want to do, how we want to act. And if that changes, we go with it. We're still young, we might not necessarily know what we want. Even if you're not an adolescent anymore. you can change. Do what you feel like doing, not  what you're really good at, or you loved to do a while ago. Don't be worried if something changes. Explore possibilities. Live in the present, don't be sad about the past, just cherish good memories. Change can be good. 

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10 comments:

  1. Amazing. You are just amazing. I agree, change is good and we should all take chances!

    ~Noor

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    1. Thank you so much Noor!! Change is awesome!

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  2. How amazingly true! People do change, and sometimes it is in fact, for the better!
    Love your blog, Jollygirl, and I'm definitely following!
    -Lauren <3
    lovingourcreator.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you! I don't think you followed, but thank you for saying you loved my blog! I'm about to visit yours!!

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  3. Wonderful post, Jollygirl. ♥

    xx

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  4. This is true... as a young girl I was always really sweet and I always spoke and not listen. Now, I'm more quiet and I do listen to people more often; I speak, but not through verbal circumstances. This is a lovely post. Jollygirl!

    xoxo Morning

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    1. Thank you! Yes, I have also been through many changes.

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